Posted on 27 January 2012 by Tea Server
(Found on The American Psychological Association) With a little commentary of my own in the brackets, bolded. Do: 1. Respond to any bullying incident that you witness. Most bullying takes place in “unowned spaces” like hallways, playgrounds and restrooms where adult supervision is minimal (Astor, Meyer, & Behre, 1999). It is important for teachers to [...]
Posted on 23 November 2011 by Tea Server
Once, while conversing with Almighty Allah, Prophet Musa/Moses (Peace Be Upon Him) requested: “O’ Lord! I desire to meet the person, who is to be my companion in Paradise.”
Allah Almighty has mentioned we must sincerely ponder over the many hardships, which were taken by our parents for our comfort. In their old age it’s our obligation to take good care of them and never let them lonely. If we keep our parents happy with us then Allah shall be happy with us.
In Islam it is obligatory for us to show kindness, respect, and obedience to our parents:
Abu Huraira reported Prophet Muhammad (Peace Be Upon Him) as saying: “Let him be humbled into dust; let him be humbled into dust. It was said: God’s Messenger, who is he? He said: He who sees either of his parents during their old age or he sees both of them, but he does not enter Paradise (because he has been undutiful to them).” (Muslim)
Posted on 18 November 2011 by Tea Server
Let’s start sharing with parents
Sharing, tips, sharing advice, sharing secrets, sharing ideas, sharing jokes and laughter, thus everyone shares a lot of stuff with family, friends, fellows and coworkers etc. In fact everyone uses word “share” once in a whole day. In school, offices you share lunch with your friends and coworkers, your teachers or elders share tips and advice with you, you share your secrets and jokes with your friends. Sharing is necessary in every relationship whether it’s between mother and a kid, teacher and a student or boss or an employee. Sharing strengthens the love bond.
The world is running with a horse speed as time is flying like an aeroplane, large technologies are becoming small thus fitting inside one’s palms. The world is getting digital so as young generation, everyone has personal, cell phone, laptops, now there’s no need to have a big PC to use internet as its present in everyone’s cell phone. Ironically the world is shrinking through social networking sites but distance between parents and children are increasing. Social networking sites have decreased distance between you and your friend sitting in America to whom you share your everyday happenings, your unpleasant experiences, your chit chat with your friends, your secrets in shorts all the stuff that you should share with your mother first. Sharing your whereabouts with your friends is not bad but how can your trust your friends more than your parents?
Many children scare for sharing their everyday activities with their parents because they think, parents will scold them. Therefore, they buried their unpleased experiences in depth of their hearts as a result they remain disturb. No doubt, you can share it with your friends but they will only listen to your stories. They won’t give you any solution. The key of solution is present in parent’s advice. Here, you know where the key is present, now go and unlock the locks of your hearts in front of your parents.
If you have a crush or your girl/boy friend has just left you or your friend is entangled into bad activities or they smoke or they talk nonsense and discuss unpleasant topics tell your parents. Share it with them. It will save you from bad company and your friends too from involving further into bad activities.
If you don’t share your secrets due to the fear of offensive remarks pass by your parents then all I can say is to be brave. If you have guts to do unallowed stuff then you should develop guts to face the consequences.
