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Are You A Kind Person?

Posted on 11 March 2012 by Tea Server

Kindness is a gift everyone afford to give.
Kindness is the most precious moral behaviour. Kindness is mixture of many other virtues like love, compassionate, sympathy, positive emotions, courtesy, affection and care. Kindness is important virtue to have, it makes you a moral human being, we show kindness through soft and  sincere words and actions.
Kindness is an act of love and care towards human, animal even nature.  A small act of kindness can make a big impact, a smile, a

kind word, a listening ear, an honest compliment, or the smallest act of caring these touched our life deeply. Kindness brings peace and happiness in our life, society and also in our world, it improves good relationship with those who are around us.

Kindness makes you a friendly, sensitive and sincere person who feel hurt of other and always ready to help, comfort and encourage people in many ways. It gives you peace of mind. 

Allah orders us to treat people with kindness, being kind means giving love, respect, help, speaking kind words, mercy and truthfulness to all fellow human beings. 
“Do good to parents, and to relatives and orphans, and the needy, and the near neighbour and the distant neighbour and the companion of your side and the wayfarer and to your male and female servants. Undoubtedly, Allah loves not the proud, boastful.   Surah An-Nisaa : Ayat 36

Islam teaches that kindness should extend not only to other people but also to the all creatures, to treat all animals, birds, sea creatures, and insects with mercy and sympathies to them and not harming them.
Prophet Muhammad (Peace Be Upon Him)  clearly said that the practise of cutting tails and manes of horses, of branding animals at any soft spot and of keeping horses saddled unnecessarily.

The Prophet preached us to show kindness to all living souls.

“Fear God with regard to animals”, said the Prophet Muhammad (Peace Be Upon Him), “ride them when they are fit to be ridden, and get off their backs when they are tired; surely, there are rewards for being kind and gentle to animals, and for giving them water to drink.”


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Kindness  is key to heart.
When we are filled with kindness, we are not judgmental.
When you put some kindness into the world, you’ll like
 what the world gives back.
 Nothing is more precious in this world than kindness.
Love and kindness are never wasted. They always make a difference. They bless the one who receives them, and they bless you, the giver.


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Do You Have Right To Judge Others?

Posted on 26 February 2012 by Tea Server

Happy is the person who finds fault with himself instead of finding fault with others.
I really feel bad whenever I see people comment on post’s of facebook pages that are about affairs of famous  personalities those belong to electronic media or politics etc. I don’t know why people feel eager to comment in more biased way and use cheapest words for them, don’t they know who are we to poke our nose into their matters or to judge them badly and gossip about their life; that why they do this and that. We are not judge and jury, it’s arrogant to judge anybody. We don’t know their whole story so why we assume. To me it’s not freedom of speech but judging others unfairly. After all no one  enjoys to being judged.
All things, big and small, invite our judgement. The condition of the weather, political matters, the taste of food, a television programs and actors etc. Judgement mostly mostly stands on criticism we should take a step back and realize our judgements aren’t always right. A great deal of our judging of others is mis-judging or unjust judging. It’s wrong to judge people unfairly.
Before you accuse me, take a look at yourself.

We all know that we are not allowed to judge others, but sadly; judging other people is our random activity, we’re all guilty of judging other people. We all are addicted to judge people who are around us, we are quick to judge other people about their attitude, looks, dressing, race, creed, sexuality, political orientation, social status, life style or anything else . In front of them we become gentle towards them, pretend to express love, affection and behind their back we brutally judge them even in front of them scold and nag them with harsh words try to tear apart their whole personality, their confidence and their image.

The act of judgement is an act of pride because judging others energize pride. We put ourselves above other people when we make judgement about them. We think we know others intentions or we know where their heart stands. It’s stupid. And it only brings us down.
Some people are insecure and feel good by judging (gossip, criticise, belittle others & finding faults) others and making fun of others to satisfy their own inner and try to cover their own weaknesses and insecurities.

We all know deep down inside we can’t really judge another person.

Making own judgement about others means we form a standard of our choice and make rules for them to follow. Individually we all are complex creatures and unique. Everyone of us has different  nature, own ways and rules to spend his/her life, we all have different situations & backgrounds, different experiences, different challenges. We have to accept the fact that everyone has a story and everyone has free will to decide what they want to do, how they want to live their life.

Any judgement we make has no basis, Allah is the Judge and He will judge the people for indeed we do not know what is in the hearts of others, rather Allah knows what is in the breasts of mankind.

Islam demands fairness and impartiality when it comes to judging others. Talking about other people on the basis of mere suspicion or hearsay and making wrong judgement and assumption is forbidden.
Allah says in Quran:
‘O believers! Stand-up firmly by the Commandments of Allah, bearing witness with justice and let not the enmity of any people incite you that you should not do justice. Do justice that is nearer to piety and fear Allah, undoubtedly, Allah is aware of your doings. Surah Al-Maidah : Ayat 8

The hypocrite looks for faults, the believer looks for excuses. 

Our beloved Prophet Muhammad (Peace and salutations be upon him) said, “Should you become eager to mention another’s faults, recall your own.”  (Ar-Rafi)

The one better thing what can we do is to have the default assumption about other people in any matter and we should fix, support, help, guide and teach each other to become better people.

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Allah Loves Not Those

Posted on 21 February 2012 by Tea Server

Allah (God) does not love the transgressors. Surah Al-Baqara : Ayat 190
Allah (God) loves not any ungrateful big sinner. Surah Al-Baqara : Ayat 276
Allah (God) loves not the infidels. Surah Al-i’Imran : Ayat 32
Allah loves (God) not any big deceitful sinner. Surah An-Nisaa : Ayat 107
Undoubtedly, Allah (God) loves not the proud, boastful.
Surah An-Nisaa : Ayat 36
Allah (God) likes not the uttering of evil words except one who is being oppressed. And Allah (God) is Hearing, Knowing. Surah An-Nisaa : Ayat 148
Verily, Allah (God) loves not anyone who is treacherous and ungrateful. 
Surah Al-Hajj : Ayat 38
Undoubtedly, He (God) loves not the unjust. Surah Ash-Shura : Ayat 40
Undoubtedly Allah (God) loves not any arrogant boaster.
Surah Luqman : Ayat 18
Undoubtedly Allah (God) loves not those who exult. Surah Al-Qasas : Ayat 76
Undoubtedly Allah (God) loves not the mischief-makers.
 Surah Al-Qasas : Ayat 77
Undoubtedly, the persons crossing the limit are not liked by Him.
 Surah Al-A’raf : Ayat 31
 Undoubtedly, Allah (God) likes not those who cross the limit. 
Surah Al-Maidah : Ayat 87
Undoubtedly, the treacherous are not liked by Allah (God). Surah Al-Anfal : Ayat 58
Allah (God) loves not any exultant, boastful.
Surah Al-Hadid : Ayat 23

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Very Irritating Protocol (V.I.P)

Posted on 18 February 2012 by Tea Server

I was waiting on the signal at 26th street Badar Commercial when this disturbing event happened. Heard siren of an ambulance from back and moved my car a bit. Ambulance came but stopped due to some VIP movement in the area. In the ambulance I saw only one man the driver who was holding the [...]

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Who is Aafia Siddiqui’s husband? Majid Khan or Ammar al-Baluchi? –> More US media lies and deceptions on the issue.

Posted on 15 February 2012 by Tea Server

Just read a news on reuters about aafia siddiqui, 5 feet week lady, allegedly linked with al-qaida and serving 86 years imprisonment for snatching a gun from 3 strong marines in prison and in the process getting herself shot without having any finger prints on the gun (according to trial reports and testimony of fbi agent in the court). First USA media was saying Ammar Al-Baluchi is Aafia’s husband and now they are saying Majid Khan is her husband? We also need an open trial in Pakistan to see who is her husband? It seems they are not consistent in their 9/11 lies and deception.

http://www.reuters.com/article/2012/02/15/us-usa-guantanamo-idUSTRE81E01220120215?feedType=RSS&feedName=pakistan&virtualBrandChannel=10165&utm_source=dlvr.it&utm_medium=twitter&dlvrit=59231

Even the bogus wikipedia entry on her still says Al-baluchi as her husband and many US media sources of that time (though her family denies any of these reports). http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Aafia_Siddiqui

Justice, humanity and peace loving people in USA should raise their voice on the issue.

Something relevant to current times, written in Nazi days by Pastor Martin Niemoller :

First they came for the communists,

and I didn’t speak out because I wasn’t a communist.

Then they came for the trade unionists,

and I didn’t speak out because I wasn’t a trade unionist.

Then they came for the Jews,

and I didn’t speak out because I wasn’t a Jew.

Then they came for me

and there was no one left to speak out for me.

 

Update : Reuters have recognized their mistake and have now edited the story with a note at the end : (In para 12, removes incorrect description of Aafia Siddiqui as Khan’s wife; she is not his wife)

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Waste Land – The Effect of the Human Side

Posted on 05 February 2012 by Tea Server

Waste Land was in my ‘to watch’ list along with anumber of titles that I have now decided to dig in before the list gets toolong. Now from my ‘to watch’ list, it has shifted to my ‘favorite’ list.

The film is based on the journey of the renowned Brazilianartist Vik Muniz back to his home land Brazil & Jardim Gramacho, world’slargest garbage dump. Muniz’s initial idea was to paint the garbage picturesbut after interacting with them, he came up with something better. He involvedthe pickers in his project by making them work on their own pictures with recyclablegarbage. To quote Vik ‘..so that they can say we did it, not that Vik did it.’Taking their pictures in natural & semi-natural environments, he thenguided them to recreating them with the material that they collected from thedump. In the end those pictures get a top ranking exhibition & the fundshelp transform the life of some of the pickers.

It is the human factor that touches you the most, orat least that is what impacted me the most. The horror of the mountains of thegarbage was taken over by the stories of the people involved & theirstruggle & aspirations.

Generally, we make assumptions about people based onour perceptions about them as per their outlook. Nobody bothers to look deeperthan the outlook, where the true story lies. As the saying goes ‘appearancesare deceptive’. These people who are disregarded as lesser beings have ideas& philosophy of life that can put the socially accepted intellectuals toshame. Some examples from the film include; Valter who argued with people that99 is not 100. Tiao Santos, who worked for organizing the community of thepickers, to ensure that they can put their demands in front of the authorities& how he kept going when even people who he wanted to help, did not believein him. Then there was another individual, who would pick books while lookingfor recyclable stuff & bring it to the community’s centre & intended tobuild a community library. He would be shocked to see that people throw awaybooks in their garbage. The women in the group were proud of the fact that theywere earning their living through hard work & not begging or prostitution. Theseare just few of the examples.

This is one side of the human aspect that touches you;the other is the one that is reflected by Vik Muniz. People, who when they gettheir goals give back to their community & not be ashamed of their rootsare not in the majority around us. To realize that it was a combination oftheir work & luck that got them where they are. Like Vik states that a lotof these pickers are from lower middle class families & they ended up therebecause drastic circumstances evolved around them & they had to be therefor their survival. Had something similar happened to him, he could have endedup there as well. Near the end of the film Vik says that when you don’t haveanything, you desire material things & when you have everything you don’tdesire any material gains. For himself he admitted that ‘I had to buy a lot ofcrap before I could get over my complex’. This view is not shared by a lot ofpeople. A lot of people cannot get over their complex & in some cases itgets destructive, both for themselves & others around them. In my opinion,those who will watch this documentary, (& I highly recommend that everyonedoes) he will be a source of inspiration.

There is a part where Vik & other collaboratorsof the project are discussing the long term effects on the pickers at the closeof their project, as a lot of them said that they didn’t want to go back. Theoption of flying them to London was under discussing. One opinion came thatpeople are fragile & once they get to see the other side, reconciling withtheir original status would have devastating effect on them. The counterargument was that if they don’t get to see the other side, how will they worktowards getting out of their present situation. I personally agree to this viewpoint. While this is a reality of life that not everyone will get the samestatus or rewards for their input, this is no reason for not giving everyone achance to try. Hampering this chance for others should not be allowed. Everyoneis entitled to the basics & then let the nature course take its route. Thisis a kind of mind set that we have towards education in our own country whichhas led to an education crisis.

If nothing else, the viewers will take home the ideaof giving back to your community & the realization that in search of doingsomething big, we lose out on the opportunities to make a significantdifference in a few peoples’ lives, which can trigger the much needed trickledowneffect.             


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The black man

Posted on 27 January 2012 by Tea Server

I’m going to share with all of you a very interesting piece,  excerpted from Paulo Coelho’s blog. I’m sure it will help us to wash our tainted lenses.  We must not forget that we (Human) are  created from a single soul. ‘HQ’  We need to shrug of the ideology or system which provides us way to discriminate others or which breeds ignorance based on race, creed and caste.

 

The ego is always trying to dupe us we need to crush it before humanity. Paulo Coelho is always my favorite writer and an inspirational figure. This is a must read story and don’t underestimate your comments after reading it. Thank you Paulo for your contribution to the world of mutual understanding. God Bless you!

Abrazo

Nooru

 

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Por Rosa Montero

We are at the restaurant of a German University. A red haired student, and undeniably German takes her tray and sits down at her table. She then realizes she has forgotten her cutlery and gets up again to pick it up.

Coming back, she sees with astonishment that a black man, possibly sub-Saharian by his appearance, is sitting there and is eating from her tray.
Straight away, the young woman feels lost and stressed . But immediately changes her thought and presumes that the African is not familiar with European customs concerning private property and privacy. She also takes into consideration that perhaps he does not have enough money to pay for his meal.

In any case, she decides to sit in front of the guy and to smile at him in a friendly manner. The African responds with another dazzling smile.
The German girl starts to help herself, –sharing the food with the black man with genuine pleasure and courtesy. And thus, he took the salad, she ate the soup, both took their share of the stew, one took care of the yoghurt and the other of the piece of fruit, All this peppered with numerous refined smiles – timid from the man and smoothly, encouraging and kind by the girl –. They eat up their lunch. The German girl gets up to get a coffee. And it is then that she discovers, on the table behind the black man, her coat placed on the back of a chair and her food tray untouched.

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I dedicated this charming story – furthermore an authentic one – to all who are wary of immigrants and consider them as inferior individuals. To all these people, who with the best of intentions, observe them condescendingly and with paternalism.

It would be better that we free ourselves of prejudices or we run the risk to make a fool of ourselves like the poor German who thought to be at the height of civilization whilst the African greatly educated, let her eat and share her meal and at the same time was thinking :; how mad these Europeans are.’

Peace!!!

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Reports of Afia Siddiqui getting cancer and pregnant due to sexual abuse–>This case is enough to say that ISI is trash

Posted on 21 January 2012 by Tea Server

Afia Siddiqui case is alone enough to say that ISI is like a truck of filthy garbage and must be grounded for sure. They have got too much authority to sell the country and its people. These morons are good for nothing. The best scenario for Pakistan will be if these feudal-corporatist and Khaki ruling elite keep fighting with each other and destroy each other. Then a new Pakistan can emerge out of it , more free, more justice-loving and more prosperous.

Below is a news report stating some shameful things which also tells us about the hypocritical justice system of United States of America. The details may be a bit exaggerated or some of the details might not be as they are but over all context is disturbing about her condition and her family facing problems to find details about her. But the main culprit is ISI as I don’t expect miracles from USA marines or security institutions.

We hope that people with sense of justice and humanity will stand up in United States of America and will raise their voice against this injustice.

Dr Afia Siddiqui gets pregnant, contracts cancer in US jail

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Karachi: Pakistani scientist Dr Afia Siddiqui, who is serving 86-year imprisonment in a US prison cell, has contracted cancer and allegedly become pregnant as a result of sexual abuse during her confinement.

Talking to The News Tribe, her sister Dr Dr Fouzia Siddiqui said she had come to know through Pakistani Consul General in Houston that Dr Afia Siddiqui had been diagnosed with a cancer. She added that earlier there were reports that the Pakistani scientist had become pregnant due to alleged sexual abuse during imprisonment. However, the Pakistan Embassy has not playing its role in either confirming or rejecting the reports.

She said that former Pakistan Ambassador to US Hussain Haqqani was called back the next day when he told us the condition of Dr Afia.

She quoted Pakistan Consul General Aqil Nadeem as saying that he was requesting the jail authorities for providing medical facilities to the Pakistani scientist.

Dr Fouzia said keeping in view the reputation of the Roswell jail and the nature of her sister’s disease the request was insufficient.

She urged the Pakistan Embassy to arrange a team of physicians comprising doctors from jail as well as from private sector for Dr Afia Siddiqui.

Dr Fouzia said that newly-appointed Pakistan Ambassador to US Sherry Rehman had assured her all possible help before leaving for America to take up her new assignment. However, despite making contact with her, the envoy has not given any response in this regard.

Speaking about the reports of Dr Afia’s alleged pregnancy, she said that her family was told about it after the Pakistani scientist showed some symptoms in the women jail.

Dr Fouzia appealed to the US and Pakistani authorities to arrange a telephonic conversation of her mother with Dr Afia.

Earlier, British journalist and human rights activist Yvonne Ridley had declared the long punishment of Dr Afia as just ‘one step away from death’. 

Talking about attitude of Pakistani politicians being adopted on the Dr Afia issue, she said that she would not believe in their statements until and unless her sister returns to Pakistan. Dr Fouzia complained that the politicians had only exploited the Dr Afia issue just to gain political mileage.

She said that the Pakistani scientist had been provided substandard food, which led to health problems at the jail as she had complained of it during her earlier telephonic conversations.

According to Pakistani TV anchor Aamir Liaquat Hussain, he had received information from his friends in the US that Dr Afia had contracted cancer and will be killed during confinement.

The renowned anchor said that the Pakistani scientist can be brought back through diplomatic efforts.

In a video uploaded on Youtube, Hussain said that Dr Afia had become pregnant as a result of sexual abuse in jail.

The News Tribe, a UK-based bilingual news website has approached Pakistan Ambassador to US Sherry Rehman through an email to get her point of view on the issue but received no response till the filing of this news.

Source : http://www.thenewstribe.com/2012/01/21/dr-afia-siddiqui-gets-pregnant-contracts-cancer-in-us-jail/#.Txq0L3KsQyA

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No Place For Racism

Posted on 28 December 2011 by Tea Server


“I asked the Zebra, 
are you black with white stripes? 
Or white with black stripes? 
And the zebra asked me, 
Are you good with bad habits? 
Or are you bad with good habits? 
Are you noisy with quiet times? 
Or are you quiet with noisy times? 
Are you happy with some sad days? 
Or are you sad with some happy days? 
Are you neat with some sloppy ways? 
Or are you sloppy with some neat ways? 
And on and on and on and on and on and on he went. 
I’ll never ask a zebra about stripes…again.” 
― Shel Silverstein


Say no to racism. Say yes to equality.
When we look around and observe carefully we will notice discrimination in our society. Wheresoever it may be in offices, restaurants, or even local malls, we people discriminated each other, on the sole basis of skin colour, cast creed, religions, cultures. yes of course race.

We may define racism as the hatred of one person by another or the belief that another person is less than human because of skin colour, language, customs, place of birth or any factor that supposedly reveals the basic nature of that person.  This can then lead to abusive or aggressive behaviour towards members of another community on the basis of such a belief. That is how the slave trade began many years ago.

I don’t believe in borders, in barriers, in flags. I think that we all belong, independent of latitude and longitude, to the same family, the human family. ~Vittorio Arrigoni

Racism is one of the severe diseases of human society. Racism has birthed many of society’s ills. Discrimination, separation, and segregation are products of a racist mentality. When one race acts out its superior beliefs in a society, there is no room for harmony or community.

Racism is treating someone differently or unfairly simply because they belong to a different ethnic community.

Racists tend to feel threatened by anyone who is from a different race, religion, or culture. It comes from ignorance and fear brought on by stereotypes.
Racism affects badly, if anyone experiences racism of any kind, they can feel lonely and, getting depressed, sad. Like bullying, they may also try and avoid situations where racist behaviour could occur, and pretend to be ill, play truant from school, or be scared to leave their house.
We are not born racist and racism is not in our genes. It comes from our views and beliefs that develop as we grow up. We can be influenced by friends, family, newspapers, and society in general. Racism is abnormal and unacceptable, it is based on ignorance and fear. It’s serious stuff and one that we all want to avoid.

Just treat all people as people.
Islam is the most anti-racist and anti-prejudicial way of life. Islam calls for equality and brotherhood of mankind. No racism. no superiority, no tribalism but kindness and respect to the other. Allah (God) doesn’t look at the colour of our skin; He looks at the level of our Imaan (Faith).
Allah says in Quran:
‘O people! We created you from one man and one woman and made you branches and tribes that you may recognise one another. Undoubtedly, the most respected among you in the sight of Allah is he who is more pious, verily, Allah is knowing, Aware.  Surah Al-Hujurat : Ayat 13
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No racism, we are the same.

Messenger eradicated the problem of racial or colour discrimination so successfully he said; “All mankind is from Adam and Eve, an Arab has no superiority over a non-Arab nor a non-Arab has any superiority over an Arab; also a white has no superiority over black nor a black has any superiority over white except by piety and good action.”

You can be black or white,
You can be rich or poor,
You can be tall or small
You can be fat or slim
You can from the West or from the East
You can from the South or from the North
You can be in a good health or not 
You can be disabled or not 
You can be educated or not
You can be graduate or not
But we are all sisters and brothers between us,
We are all sons and daughters of Adam (Peace Be Upon Him).
We will be all the same at HIS (Allah) eyes.
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Makes You Wonder About Tomorrow (inspired by Umair Haque)

Posted on 24 December 2011 by Tea Server



Every morning that I wake up (not that there are some I don’t), I first check my phone for anything that might determine the rest of my day. It can be anything like an email from my management to a…



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