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Making Resolutions for 2012

Posted on 04 January 2012 by Tea Server



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Happy new year everyone!

Welcome to 2012 and new resolutions for this year. Last year I made a resolution to take a blog dare to blog every day of the year. Though I was not able to do that but the blog saw a great increase in traffic due to the content I added to the blog. It made me take the blogging business more seriously.

By making resolutions you may or may not achieve all that you have planned but It helps you to be on a right track towards the right direction. It also let you realize about your abilities and unexpected circumstances you may face in the future and which may hinder your progress towards achieving your goals.

 

But first I want to mention some of the posts that grab most of your attention and gained popularity.  

Top content of the last year

3 Websites to Help you Keep Track of New Year Resolutions

10 Great Websites For Muslim Baby Names

Glycerin, Lemon and Rosewater Lotion

Rasmalai Recipe

Chocolate Custard Recipe

Women and the Weight Loss Tamasha 

Free Family Organizer

Online Games for Preschool Kids

Websites for Toddlers

Simple Curry Powder Recipe

Mums DIY Pamper Guide

Murgh Palak Recipe

DIY Nappy Stacker

My Goals for 2012

This year I want to go slow. Don’t want to set goals that I cannot reach. In the excitement don’t rush yourself as slow and steady always wins the race. 

I love to read blogs and last year I discovered some great blogs that inspired and motivated me to blog even in times it was impossible for me to write.

With the soon to be newest addition to my family, I expect things to get more complex. But I am determined to be more organized to keep things simple and peaceful at home and at the blog icon smile Making Resolutions for 2012 .  Last year I wrote mostly on the topics of toddlerhood. This year I want to expand my parenting approaches from babyhood to preschooler and beyond.

I’ll be adding a book list that I’ll be reading this year. Last year I had the chance to read one book only and that was Women and the Weight Loss Tamasha. This year I also intend to read the Holy Quran more closely and try to understand the meanings of the verses and message of Allah.

I hope this year brings hope, joy and beautiful Moments to your life.

If there is a topic you wish me to write on, please feel free to contact me.

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South Africa: 2011 in Review

Posted on 04 January 2012 by Tea Server

Happy New Year, everyone. Before you look forward to 2012 it’s time to look back at South Africa’s 2011.

1. Summary of 2011

There were three issues that defined 2011 in South Africa.

1) By far the most significant of these was the controversy over the Protection of State Information Bill. For many years the ANC’s critics — white, usually, though not always — have accused the party of having dictatorial tendencies. These accusations have by and large been nonsense. Until now. The Information Bill, which putatively protects state secrets from being released via the media — a canard if ever there was one — represents an Apartheid-style bill in post-apartheid clothing. If government has the ability to control, menace, and punish an independent media, that media ceases to be independent. Let’s say that you trust the current iteration of the ANC. And let’s say, fairly, that even as the party has had the necessary 2/3 of the vote, or close to it, to allow them unilaterally to amend the constitution, it has not done so. But whenever an act of government such as this passes a useful question to ask is not what this dispensation might do with it, but rather what a future, more draconian dispensation might do. The question is not whether one should trust this government. The question is whether to trust any potential future government.

What has been reassuring has been the extent to which the passage of the bill met with vibrant public dissent. Arguably civil society became more engaged with this issue than any other political question in the post-apartheid era. “Black Tuesday” protests both real and symbolic (in the form of wearing black and in many cases tape over one’s mouth) took place across the country and dominated the news cycle and brought out the best among journalists and public intellectuals. So far all of this protest was to little avail, but it is telling that South Africans did not passively take this news or gnash teeth and ball their fists impotently.

2) During the World War II era in the United States (and in other parts of the world) labor unions had tremendous potential leverage but chose not to exercise it, deciding instead to act for what they believe was the greater good. But once the war ended, so too did the gentleman’s agreement about mass strikes and as a result labor actions proliferated. The Public Sector Strikes that hammered South Africa throughout the country’s winter of labour discontent revealed both the extent of working class dissatisfaction with the ANC and served to reveal the hangover from the 2010 World Cup. By and large the unions chose not to strike during the World Cup the previous winter, but those chickens roosted this year and then some. COSATU may be in alliance with the ANC from an official governance standpoint. But the unions flexed their muscles throughout 2011, once again revealing that the tripartite Alliance might not be on all that sound footing.

3) The ANC’s very public rebuke of Julius Malema, the ANC Youth League’s enfant terrible, represents the latest act but not the last act in an ongoing drama. Malema stands, I’m going to assume, as the country’s Phoenix in waiting. Like Richard Nixon in the early 1960s Malema has vowed that he has exited politics. Trust me — whatever he says, Malema is not done with public life in South Africa. He is destined to rise from the ashes, and when he does, he will carry significant numbers of supporters with him. Maybe not enough to change the country’s political calculus, but enough to make the party hierarchy uncomfortable.

2. Most Unexpected Event

1) In a country where the unexpected is expected it is hard to identify one shocking event or incident. But for observers of South African sport 2011 was not a great year. The Springboks exited the World Cup in rather desultory fashion (though they did outplay Australia in every aspect of the game but the scoreboard, the scoreboard is the only measure that matters). Bafana Bafana was left on the outside looking in when the national team’s leadership did not realize that more than a tie was necessary to progress to the continent’s championship. And the Proteas? Well, they continue to be the best international cricket team never to assert its dominance and they don’t seem any closer to doing so now than they have since their return to international cricket.

But seriously — not knowing the rules of advancement for a major international tournament? Unforgivable.

2) I do know that many of you may not be as sports mad as I am. So the other big surprise, at least for me, was the anticlimactic way that Julius Malema stepped down from his perch at the ANC Youth League. Despite Malema’s Nixonian pronouncements that he’s done with public life, such disavowals are in the nature of the political phoenix. I’m willing to place wagers that we will, in fact, have Julius Malema to kick around in years to come.

3. Person/Group of the Year

There are three possibilities.

1) In a country where everything is political, especially that which isn’t, and that is so dominated by the ANC not only politically but culturally as well, is it any surprise that President Jacob Zuma stands at the top of this list? Love him, hate him, or tolerate him, Zuma is the essential figure in South African political life. It is quite possible that Zuma will face a political storm at the end of the year, but, assuming that he still holds on to power in the party he is likely to continue to maintain this spot for some time to come.

2) For sheer significance in a year in which a mass of public sector workers flexed some muscles and reminded people of the potentially outsized role of COSATU it is hard to overstate the importance of COSATU General Seceratary Zwelinzima Vavi. Vavi emerges every so often to speak, and when he does so, people listen. Vavi could prove to be a kingmaker. Keep an eye on him.

3) For all of the reasons stated above (and for more stated below) Julius Malema continues to be a vital figure in the country’s politics, no less so because of his avowal that he is exiting public life.

4. Forecast for 2012

1) Is the country looking at another Polokwane Moment? In December the ANC will meet in Magaung and in so doing will elect the party president and thus the almost certain winner of the country’s next national elections (and lots of other elected positions of importance). You will recall that in December 2007 the ANC ousted Thabo Mbeki from the party presidency, which began the process of his ultimate humiliation in stepping down from the presidency of the country months later. Jacob Zuma was the chief beneficiary of the events in Polokwane. But many in the party have not been especially comfortable with Zuma either personally or politically. And understandably so.

Will this dissatisfaction give way to a push similar to the one that pushed Mbeki from party leadership? The odds are against it, but Zuma has more detractors within the party than an ANC president should find comfortable. A further irony is that the ANC Youth League might be looking for Zuma’s scalp. There are rumors that Thabo Mbeki might be their man. How unfathomable would that be?

2) More on Malema: Indeed, I would not be surprised if he is visible by the time of the ANC’s party conference in Mangaung in December. Malema may for the time being be persona non grata in the ANC. But will that endure if there is enough of a public clamoring for Malema’s redemption? And if that does not happen, might Malema look toward another political party and another political party toward him?

3) And expect the ANC centenary to dominate the year. And for current party leaders to cloak themselves in that history. Whatever other predictions I make, this one, I’m pretty certain, will be right.

(By the way, in last year’s Year in Review post, which was about the continent as a whole, I think I did respectably in my forecast. The key? Much like with astrology or fortune telling, don’t get too specific!)

5. Best Book of 2011

In a year of good books about Africa, if I have to choose one to recommend, I would go with Stephen Chan’s fine Southern Africa: Old Treacheries and New Deceits, in which a respected academic expert on the region provides an accessible overview of the state of affairs in Southern Africa with particular emphasis on South Africa, Zimbabwe, and Zambia.

Have a great 2012, and thanks for reading.

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~ New Year and Resolutions ~

Posted on 04 January 2012 by Tea Server

First of all would like to apologize to my readers for not being regular. I didn’t mean to take such a long gap from blogging but was dealing with too many things… Break was a must. But now that I am back, I promise to blog frequently.

Thought about what to blog this year as it just started and it truly started with highs and lows for me. But I am concentrating on all the highs and working towards it :) Hope for the rest of you it started with only highs. :)

Before and after New Year, the first few days all we see is people making resolutions; I mean to each its own seriously! Just that I don’t believe in making any Resolutions because half the time I see people failing with their so called resolutions. And then the phase of disappointments begins. So why make it in the first place? One doesn’t really need a NEW YEAR to start something new isn’t it? When each day is a blessing in itself, you can start something without the New Year tag… But this is my personal opinion. Nobody has to agree with it.

I believe in living each day as it comes because you never know what tomorrow holds for us. I have seen people making biggest plans for the whole year and could never keep with it. Why wait when you have this moment to work on your goals? Sometimes we make all kinds of resolutions and God forbid things don’t happen the way we had planned, the whole year feels like a disaster…So try and live each day as it comes because each day does bring a different kind of challenge and surprises in your life. Fight it, accept it, appreciate it, cherish it, learn from it, and create memories out of it… you will feel much happier a person in the end.

Learn from last year’s mistakes. It’s a lesson we all experience as we grow.. Make each day special as waking up each morning itself is a blessing. Keep your life as simple as possible and believe in miracles. Half of the time by making 100 resolutions we complicate our life and our living. Even if you are making any resolutions, try and see you live by it because you will set an example for yourself then… Don’t falter in your own promises.

New Year is surely a new beginning to lot of things. Live your dreams, live it each day… Make your loved ones happy… Give quality time to them if you haven’t for some reason. Try to be a better and a much stronger person than last year… Pray more… We only live once and so do our loved ones… Take out that time from your hectic schedule and live with them… Spread joy, happiness, smiles… You might forget what you did this year… But if you have touched your loved ones life with all that you could, they will cherish it forever! So why not make that attempt and also make a difference??? A thought to ponder over this year, isn’t it?

Happy New Year to all my readers! Stay positive and spread happiness and peace always :) )

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2011: The Turbulent Flight

Posted on 03 January 2012 by Tea Server

By Jehan Naseem

At the end of every year or the beginning of a new one, a very dear friend of mine and I repeat the same words, “God-willing, this will be our year,” to give each other a gentle yet positive push looking forward to the New Year ahead.

For some 2011 was a great year, as opposed to the preceding years which seemed far more devastating.  However, for others it had its ups and downs. Last year, I had witnessed many jumps and dips for my loved ones and myself.  It had extreme turbulences which seemed more life changing without any boundaries.

From the many lessons that I had to learn last year, the most important one for me was that to learn to deal with the root of a particular problem, in order to allow change to occur in a healthy fashion. We all know that the severe modification in the socio-economic political level affects all of us.  However, they also create internal conflicts on a personal level, by riling up a rouse or allow us to progress.  The previous year seemed no different from the preceding years in terms of the level of abruptness we all have seen.  These changes made purposely or unplanned seemed to have a different alteration on the train of thought on the large masses.  To me, this abruptness caused a visible shift in the paradigm and on a one-on-one basis.

The appearance of the shift was more apparent to me after witnessing something either devastating or extraordinary where humanity has been replaced by sensationalism. The base of the situation suggested becomes baseless, but very carefully camouflaged with morals. I wonder though, do the players at play ever realize that morals without logic are just that, baseless?  That the gaming preludes to the actualization of fear?  Fear, that makes us question our abilities rather than the choices we make?

There are many types of people in this world, some are the players and others are the ones that get played.  However, there are even those who are well aware that they are getting played yet choose to do nothing and at the same there are those will go to many levels to help themselves.  It is difficult to give the whole blame to the ones that ignited the gaming ploy, since there are so many out there who have seen and heard the truth and choose to do nothing.  I know the truth can be relative to most.  However, that can change if there is evidence and logic supporting it.  Taking out only the negative aspect of what is evident (that to only out of arrogance and pride), just so your own side can be supported isn’t self-righteous, but unfortunately puerile.  Not admitting to what is wrong around you is creating a toxic environment.  A right can not be made with two wrongs, just the way you can’t sensationalize something that isn’t there and throw the victimization card to the party in front of you.

Unfortunately, I have seen this happen many times.  I’ve seen religion, class, creed, ethnic backgrounds and race being slandered in acts of self-righteousness.  I would be defecated on in the middle of these acts, since there were directionless and attacked mostly everyone.  2011 year in particular seemed to be much rougher when it came to slandering or the glorified form of it called “sensationalism”.  A friend of mine said to me that to him, “even sensationalism was a form of fundamentalism.”  I couldn’t have said it any better.

Everything that I have stated affected me on a personal basis.  It decreased my tolerance level and increased my despair.  Oddly to say most of those around me would agree.

In 2011 I seemed to witness a re-run of emotions crashing into people like a terrible freak accident.  People that I know lost their loved ones in blasts and accidents or barely escaping them. They had been lied to out of omission leading to worsen the situation.  Someone would throw the victimization card at them (“you don’t know what I’m going through”) without being informed of what was going on.  Many have had their heart-broken in countless ways.  I have seen and experienced being spoken down to just for being individuals without disrespect and when standing up for yourself you get labeled (for a foul mood or just a terrible person).

However, every negative has a positive.  I saw many positive things come out of these scenarios as well.  I saw people becoming stronger after losing a loved one or barely escaping an accident/blast.  They became smarter after their right being held from them and developed the strength to fight for it.  Instead of allowing themselves to be played by a victim, they became martyr on their own.  Those who had broken hearts, allowed their own to have more surface area.  I chose and watched people standing up for themselves without worrying about being labeled, because those whom actually care without being fickle will never label you.

Something very small starts these train wreck of psychological emotions, which were created by situations that have occurred.  These small elements have been composed into something bigger than they are supposed to be.  For example; the cause behind a terrorist attack may be small, but when it is made into something bigger it literally kills.  You can see the application of it on a personal basis.  When something devastating does happen a part of you dies.  However, even if a part of you dies it is just so that you can be re-born once again.

Even though 2011 was the year of change, hopefully 2012 will be that of change filled with peace of mind and heart.

Happy New Year everyone and God Bless!

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Happy New Year

Posted on 03 January 2012 by Tea Server

A couple of days late, but Happy New year nonetheless :)

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10 Things A Girl Should Do in 2012

Posted on 03 January 2012 by Tea Server

2012 is here and a chance for every girl to move on with a fresh mind and a positive attitude, a new year is every men’s birthday. So girls, leave your past behind, the best is yet to come in your way. Here are 10 things which every girl must do in 2012. Check them out.
25 New Year Quotes

1. Sleep Well
You mind needs as much rest as your body does. You don’t want Prince Charming to see those awful dark circles when he finally comes courting. Sounds like Avril Lavigne gone clumsy with her eye make up. Trust me, you don’t want to look that, unless what you attain is something as perfect as how Avril really does it.

2. Know a Female Role Model’s Life Story
There are so many wonderful women out there who made life as easy as it is for us today. We take something for granted that was once considered unimaginable. “Women, equal to men?” They would laugh and even the weaker of the female sex shuddered at the thought. Women have come a long way. Pick up a personality that appeals to you and read her life story. An occasional look into some historical figure biography is a treasure trove of life lessons.
Marilyn Monroe Quotes
3. Set Goals
The age old principle of living a healthy, constructive life. Don’t take this for granted! Are your goals aligned with your life’s current flow? What skills do you require in attaining those goals? How do they benefit you and those around you? Are they still practical? How would you define them as something tangible as of now? Ask yourself these basic questions when defining them. Goals, objectives, aiming high towards them all play a vital role in building our self confidence. Do not take making new year resolutions as a chore or as plain fun. See it as a thought process that continuously mirrors all your efforts and see yourself as someone better than last year.

4. Sort Out Priorities
Goals and priorities go hand in hand. Do not expect a goal to quench your thirst for inner satisfaction if it does not fall somewhere around your priority list. Once you have some goals to work on, sort them out according to how and why they add something to your life. This step is a must do for every girl who wants to live a constructive life. Revise your priorties frequently and see if they are still aligned with how your life is carrying on.

5. Read More Books
I’m not talking about e-books here, please. I mean that old, traditional style of reading books tucked under a warm blanket by the fire. Books demand respect. They love to be sought, held, taken in word by word, adorned, and sometimes, read over and over. Old books with edges turned brown and page turned yellow with age are more the delight. Set a target to achive this year when it comes to book reading and give it your best shot. Oh, and make sure what you read is worth your time and attention.

6. Listen to Dance Music
Sure we’ve all had one particular song that brings out sad memories. They sat, sadness is beautiful, so you end up listening to that musical reminder of your woes over and over. Enough. Make a new playlist. Delete the old. Listen to dance music, smile if it makes you, laughing is even better. Don’t be shy if you want to get up and start moving. Dance like no one’s watching! This year is going to be yours!

7. Soul Searching
What’s with everyone so super busy with today’s grinding life that constitute of only work, work and more work? This year, set aside some time exclusively for you. Just when you think every thing is going a little too fast, see that as a signal from your brain that tells you you’re getting short of a leisurely “Me” time. Do some soul searching. We’ve forgotten how good that feels.

8. Weight Loss
That’s, like, nothing new dude. It’s something we girls are eternally putting our efforts into. This year, be firm about it. That’s where all the difference lies. Turn your intangible dreams about being size zero into something more attainable and practical like knowing what size actually suits you and what you’re comfortable in. Not every one looks good in that skinny, tall rail image of fashion models. This year, works on a look that seems tailor made just for you. Remember, looking comfortable in your skin is more attractive than looking like a distant diva right off the ramp. [More on Weight Loss]

9. Be the Author of Your Own Story
Like they say, have a plan for yourself because if you let yourself be a part of someone else’s story, chances are they might not really have a plan for you. At the end of this wonderous life, when you’ll look back at what you achieved and what you lost, decisions and choices you made throughout your life will show you the person you have become over the years. Make sure no one else but you is the author of your story. If you’re still a little on this pointer, it isn’t too late. Hold the reins of your life in your hands, so whatever happens in the end, you know it was your choice and that should comfort you alone. If the decisions require you to be bold, step up, be brave. It’s just a test, perhaps.

10. Be You
Faking never comes natural to anyone. The best people you come by are the ones you find are honest and genuine. No one fills your shoes better than yourself. Whatever the color of your skin, however the shape of your body or features, you’re a beauty like none other. God carved you with His Hands. How can you be anything but beautiful, then? This year, make a resolution to be YOU. Whatever you achieve this year, carry your own self with it, proudly and graciously. You’re the best, honey!
so make you 2012 awesome by following these 10 rules, do crazy stuff and don’t forget to have fun. Happy 2012!

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New Year 2012 – New Beginning – New Ideas

Posted on 01 January 2012 by Tea Server

Hello readers, first of all Happy New Year. Hope you all are fine and doing great with your life. I am doing great and enjoying my life. I recently switched my job and enjoying new challenges at new workplace. I learned alot about my self and other things also in 2011. First I learned that [...]

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A new day, a new year.

Posted on 01 January 2012 by Tea Server

Hello there, its been a while.

2011 has ended and like every passing year, it seems only yesterday when it came our way.
For me, 2011 brought a lot of great experiences and some difficult times too. The year started with an incredible experience that was Harvard Model United Nations 2011 and ended with an opportunity to be part of a Live Q&A session with the one who claims to bring about a ‘tsunami’, the leader of Pakistan Tehreek-e-Insaf [PTI]. Imran Khan came to the Institute of Business Administration on 23rd December 2011 perhaps in an attempt to garner further support and answer a few questions. Ironically the show’s name was ‘To the Point’ and unfortunately he was the opposite of that. I will be talking about this experience and Imran Khan’s political aspirations soon. From tomorrow I have my final exams of my first semester, hopefully it’ll be a breeze.

My blogging sadly took a back seat due to the hectic college days, yet I hope to blog more often in 2012.
Here’s a small yet interesting video about the year 2011. Have a look.
Happy New Year folks!

 

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New Year resolution… here is mine and yours?

Posted on 01 January 2012 by Tea Server

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Happy New Year – Happy New You!

Posted on 01 January 2012 by Tea Server

By: Shazia Yousuf

A new sunrise, a new dawn, a new beginning, a fresh start, a new year…
The Sun rises every day, and it sets with the hope of shining on a better world, better people when it rises again the next morning. Sets again but rises…yet again, each day… every single day, with new hope, same shimmer, not decreasing in strength nor losing even a single ray of glimmer.
 

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…Of Borrowed Resolutions

Posted on 01 January 2012 by Tea Server

2012 is here.

A new year calls for New Year’s resolutions. Instead of making my own (lazy bum that I am) I figured I’d borrow some from the king of the troubadours, Mr. Woody Guthrie. All things considered, it’s the finest set of rules-to-live-by since the Ten Commandments.

Happy New Year everyone !!

Woody Guthrie’s New Year’s Resolutions
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About 2011.

Posted on 31 December 2011 by Tea Server

2011 has been the most perilous year of my life so far. To say that it was a mere roller-caster ride would be an understatement. Ironically, the morals taken have been lesser than my experiences, which is to say I’ve grown little over the course of the previous 365 days but I’ll still blog about the lessons I’ve learned so far.

Every year I make it the first point of my resolution to curb my temper and stubbornness and I fail miserably. Regardless, I do suffer from the ramifications of these traits. This year, however, I learned the art of using some of my ferocity to my advantage that is, I channeled both of them in supporting my stance in the projects I undertook. Especially to resist unnecessary control of people who wanted to bring their ‘dominance’ in the limelight. Now that didn’t mean I took the practice to the brink of making arrogance ostensible. Though I still resolve to controlling my anger as it has in most of the cases, kept my face to the ground and I hope I master this weakness in the coming year.

I’ve also learned how hand-made cards can really warm people’s hearts. I adopted this practice of card making for many people from a friend of mine who always used to make cards (No matter how simple) for the most random people on their big day. I’ve realized if nothing, your little act of good can really make a difference for one person, no matter how distant, as it gives them a moment to think over the 15 minutes of your pure devotion in their name while making their card. Plus, it doesn’t kill to spread smiles, yes.

Also, I’ve learned the true essence of inhumanity and the fact that no matter how close a person is to you, they’ll still shove aside your best motives if they conflict with their personal interests (Which have been senile and they knew it). It goes to show that star plus doesn’t always transcend the boundaries of reality. I’ve concluded that if relations, no matter how close, emanate more of depression than bliss, it’s better to leave them straight away. Of course, new forms come and go.

Apart from the aforementioned, I’ve learned now important it is to be self-sufficient and to let go of the future deliberately instilled if one wants to achieve happiness even if it calls for contradicting the views one has been openly expressing and mocking others for adopting. In my case, I find happiness following my dreams that conflict with my set career path and I feel very guilty to have had spoken someone else’ language.

Lastly, I’ve learned that sometimes, a compound of your desired opportunities emanates from the least of expected places. You’d never think you’s be able to hone through med school work and be not only accredited, but appreciated for that. So yes, life is full of little little surprise.

Noting the above, although 2011 has been adventurous its own context. I look forward to gaining far more and losing little in 2012. Happy New Year every one. Stay blessed. :)

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2012

Posted on 31 December 2011 by Tea Server

It’s finally here, 2012. The Mayans would have you believe that we’re headed towards something apocalyptic . But that’s not a very positive way to start the new year. So instead I leave you with a prayer. May this year be all that you’re hoping for, and more. May you find peace and happiness, and leave your mark of change. May you discover joy in every breath of nature, and find wisdom in unexpected places. And lastly, may you be a source of solace for everyone around you.

Every year, we make lists. Scribbles and scrolls of what we hope we’ll accomplish as we turn a new page in the book of life. Some feature on lists every year, like losing weight and eating healthier. Others are more personal. Last year Time Magazine had a list of the most popular resolutions (Top 10 Commonly Broken New Year’s Resolution):

Every year I start with lofty personal aims for the new year, most of them similar to the list above. But like a cartoon I read suggested, New Year Resolutions tend to be a “to-do list for the first week of January” for the most part. So for 2012, I’ve decided that I don’t need a list. Here’s to a spontaneous, unpredictable year. No lists, and no planning.

Happy New Year everyone :) .

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2012: Year Of The Pakistani

Posted on 31 December 2011 by Tea Server



Each new year, fates promise us a new beginning. And as is the wont of the most beautiful amongst the ladies, and a part of their allure, this assurance can ultimately lead to either of the two, a heartbreak or a delicious surprise . But in the meantime the mere thought of the possibilities keeps one enthralled.

And the new year is also a traditional time for us foolish mortals for making our own resolutions, remarkable only for the generally singular absence of any real intent and serving the rather useful purpose of making us feel good. The frivolous ones go unheeded, as expected, after a few days into the new year. But then there are others , normally based on personal convictions driven by and filtered from bitter experience, which are meant to be kept.

As with individuals, so do nations appear to make new year resolutions. And judging by the general mood, Pakistan has firmly resolved to change.

This new year has a special universal significance anyway. December of this year is when the fourth count on the ancient Maya calendar ceases. Unlike that portrayed in films and imbedded in popular culture this date is not a portent of some great cataclysm which will strike the human race, but to the Mayans it signified an end to one cycle of human civilization and the beginning of the next one.

And this year is also associated with the most powerful positive force in Chinese cosmology, the Dragon. The Dragon symbolizes potent and auspicious powers. It is also a symbol of power, strength, and good luck. What superheroes can do, Dragons can do better, and then some more.

By some quirk of fate, both of the above seem to have intertwined and gifted us ordinary Pakistani’s something which most of us had despaired of ever coming across again , a year to look forward to. Looking back it’s amazing how much difference a mere three months can make in changing the psyche of a whole nation. And to emphasize the point, please do recall that the term nation itself had sounded embarrassingly alien in context of Pakistan not so very long ago.

Now we seem poised on the cusp of a new beginning, with PTI being the catalyst.

While for the elite among us , as a popular saying goes, every day has always been Eid and each night a celebration, for millions of other citizens life had become too much of a struggle. The dire socio-economic situation being a major cause but the chief instigator being an absence of hope. A void which had created a palpable pall of depression all round and put a question mark on the very viability of Pakistan as a normal country. Snide remarks of a failed state were being incessantly echoed in international and national media.

And then the previous three months came along. It’s still debatable that whether PTI jumped or it was pushed but it sure made a hell of a splash. Irrespective of who scored the most points, or runs, in this phase one thing is quite apparent, that the ordinary voters have suddenly been energized and become uncompromisingly demanding. They are no longer willing to be treated as mere numbers, to be duped by the more astutely wily of our traditional politicians.

As that most erudite of observers of life , Oscar Wilde observed “what seems to us as bitter trials are often blessings in disguise”, the apathy of voters in the last election subsequently dealt them a very harsh lesson indeed as to the perils of imprudent choices. Having suffered under the resulting political oligopoly of PPP, Muslim League, MQM and ANP for the last three years, the voters had become increasingly desperate. The desire to teach these arrogant oligopolists a lesson had been thwarted by the fact that there had been no real alternative available. Now Imran Khan and PTI have made sweet retribution all too possible. And promise of real change hangs thick in the air, further exciting the imagination.

No wonder then that two different observers reporting about the mood in Pakistan now and say in the past June would come across to the uninformed reader as addressing different countries altogether. Make no mistake that’s the magnitude of the change which has taken place in the national psyche. At this point in time, after many a year, there is a visible undercurrent of optimism and exhilaration in the national polity.

What we are now witnessing is that for the second time in our history , post independence, the engagement of the voters in the political process is promising to dramatically influence the direction our country is likely to take. The people feel that they have an alternative leadership to support. And most importantly well meaning political leaders have another platform to join in case they feel out of sync with their present party’s policies.

Like a particularly well thought out teaser campaign the new year has thus already provided exciting glimpses of a list of alluring possibilities to the Pakistani nation. For once the ordinary people seem to have a fighting chance to set the national agenda. For too long this has remained a prerogative, directly or indirectly, of our armed forces. Well meaning or not their intervention has ended in disaster for all of us, sooner and later. The last undisputed elections were held in 1970. We all remember what happened next when the will of the people was subverted on the plea of greater national interest. This must not be allowed to happen this time round.

For those pointing out the numerous chinks in the armor of our knight to the rescue, a word of advice. Please save your energy , nobody expects a perfect hero in Imran Khan. Real life hero’s, other than saints, are individuals who despite their all too human flaws have the courage to strive for real , meaningful change. I too disagree with his current tactics, and am pretty vocal about it, but I also truly believe that he is the best choice we have.

The Oracle is in a good mood, the auguries are auspicious, the mood is buoyant. Now it is up to all of us to ensure that 2012 year turns out to be a year to remember.

2012

Syndicated from: Borderline Green

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