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Tau’bah (Seeking Forgiveness)

Posted on 15 February 2012 by Tea Server



Allah (Subhanahu WaTaala), the all-Merciful and all-Forgiving, declares in the Holy Qur’an:

“Say: O My slaves who have transgressed against themselves (by committing evil deeds and sins)! Despair not of the Mercy of Allah, verily Allah forgives all sins. Truly, He is Oft-Forgiving, Most Merciful.” [Qur’an 39: 53]

It is the nature of mankind to be forgetful and to commit sins. However, Allah has given us the ability to rectify ourselves by turning to Him and begging for His forgiveness. Our mountains of evil deeds are nothing before the vast ocean of the mercy of Allah.

Abu Dhar RadiyAllahu `anhu reports that Rasulullah Sallallahu `alaihi wasallam in a Hadith Qudsi (a hadith in which the Blessed Prophet s quotes Allah) said: “Indeed Allah the Almighty and Majestic says:

“O My slave! Verily, as long as you worship Me and have hope in Me, I shall forgive you for what you have done; O My slave! If you meet Me with an earthful of sins, but do not associate any partner with Me, I would grant you a forgiveness as great as the whole world.” (Musnad Ahmad)

Committing sins may make you sorrowful, depressed and deeply disappointed with yourself. But if you return to Allah with a few tears and beseech Him for mercy, He will certainly forgive you. There is no other door to knock to solve our issues. None can forgive sins except Him. He calls us to the abode of peace (Paradise); He is the Almighty who hides our faults and He alone can replace our bad deeds with good deeds.

The door of repentance is always open for a person until he dies or until the sun rises from the west, whichever comes first. When something is a necessity Allah provides it in abundance like air and water. Since we are always sinful and negligent of Allah and Satan and the self are always inciting us towards evil, therefore tau’bah is provided in abundance so we can turn back to Allah.

Allah has created a solution to every sickness even if it may be the poison of a snake. Satan and sins are a major sickness and the cure for it is in tau’bah and istighfar, crying in front of Allah with deep regret in the heart.

Whenever our tau’bah breaks we should make tau’bah again. Some people despair and think they are sinners and will go to Hellfire. Tau’bah is so powerful that it can take a person from the lowest levels of Hellfire and raise him to the highest levels of Paradise.

Allah (Subhanahu WaTaala), the Lord of Mercy, puts mercy in the hearts of every mother in the world by which they love and care for their children. We make mistakes but Allah overlooks our faults. Our worship and good deeds are not perfect but Allah accepts them and multiplies the reward.

Do not fall into minor sins. Minor sins leads to major sins the way a spark may start a fire and burn down a house. A believer should run away from sin as one runs away from a snake. Even a minor sin makes a true believer restless as if a mountain is above his head and is about to fall on him and crush him.
Make a U-turn in life, wash off your slate of deeds – eliminate the bad deeds and protect your good deeds.

Method of making Tau’bah:


One should make sincere tau’bah to Allah for one’s sins. The requisites of tau’bah are the following:
1. To immediately abstain from the sin.

2. To regret and wish one had never indulged in the sin.

3. To resolve to never commit the sin again.

4. If one have violated the rights of another person it is necessary to seek forgiveness from that person.

After making sincere tau’bah be confident in the acceptance of your tau’bah. Allah (Subhanahu WaTaala) is all-Merciful and all-Forgiving. He is always ready to accept the repentance of His sinful slaves. Allah says in Surah Al-e-Imran:

“And those who, when they have committed Fahishah or wronged themselves with evil, remember Allah and ask forgiveness for their sins – and none can forgive sins but Allah – And do not persist in what (wrong) they have done, while they know.” [Al-Qur’an 3:135]

After repenting, one should try to live according to the will of Allah u i.e. the Qur’an and Sunnah. This will bring the utmost peace and tranquility into one’s life.

Benefits of Tau’bah:

The Qur’an describes the story of Prophet Nuh (AS),
“I said (to them): Ask forgiveness from your Lord; Verily, He is Oft-Forgiving; He will send rain to you in abundance; And give you increase in wealth and children, and bestow on you gardens and bestow on you rivers. ” [Surah Nooh ,chapter 71:10-12]
One who makes Tau’bah reestablishes his relationship with the Creator of the heavens and earth.

Misconceptions when committing a sin:

1. The person thinks that no one is watching.

Allah (Subhanahu WaTaala), the all-Knower and all-Hearer says in the Qur’an:

“Verily, your Lord is Ever Watchful” [89:14]
2. The person thinks that no one is near him.

Allah (Subhanahu WaTaala), says in the Qur’an:

“Have you not seen that Allah knows whatsoever is in the heavens and whatsoever is on the earth? There is no secret counsel of three, but He is their fourth (with His Knowledge), nor of five but He is their sixth (with His Knowledge), not of less than that or more, but He is with them (with His Knowledge) wheresoever they may be; and afterwards on the Day of Resurrection, He will inform them of what they did. Verily, Allah is the All-Knower of everything. “[58:7]

3. The person thinks that no one can find his action or intent.

Allah (Subhanahu WaTaala), says in the Qur’an:

“Allah knows the fraud of the eyes, and all that the breasts conceal.”[40:19]

4. The person thinks that no one can catch him or punish him.

Allah (Subhanahu WaTaala), says in the Qur’an:

“So on that Day, none will punish as He will punish. “[89:25]
“…Verily, His Seizure is painful, and severe.” [11:102]

Prayer for Taubah (from any act of disobedience and sins): The method is described at http://islameasy.org/images/Treasures-Large/47.htm and the next page.
Salat-ul Hajat. The method is described at http://islameasy.org/Dua_Hajat.php (Ask Allah to ease your difficulty and purify the heart so that you may focus on doing good deeds.)

Increase time for Du’a, especially if you could wake up during the last part of night. Here is a startup script and examples of Dua:

Dua from the Heart http://islameasy.org/pdf/Duae_Walihana.pdf

Munajaat-e-Maqbool http://islameasy.org/Dua_MM_2.php

Steadfastness on Tau’bah:
Environment of pious people:

Find a pious Shaykh near your area and contact him periodically with intention to acquire the love of Allah Almighty. Listen to lectures and read books about how to live as a true Muslim and books on the virtues of repentance, respect and honor of a believer.

Read books of virtues like Muntakhab Ahadith for 5-10 minutes every evening with your family.

Muntakhab Ahadith

http://www.islameasy.org/pdf/Belief_Hereafter.pdf

Try to attend gatherings for taleem (reading sessions) in your area. Your masjid Imam and community may help you find such programs.

Purify Environment in Home:

Make an effort to remove any bad literature, TV, pictures and movies from your home. Bad literature only incites toward immodesty and troubles and complications in this world and the Hereafter.

May Allah protect our Deen and Dunya and grant us piety and patience!

Suggested Readings:

Prayer and Du’a – Strong connection with Allah http://islameasy.org/index.php

Cure for depression http://islameasy.org/pdf/Cure_Depression.php

Easy Road to Paradise – Golden deeds that lead to success
- extracted from a booklet in Urdu ‘Jannat ka Asan Rasta” by Shaykh Mufti Mohammad Rafi Uthmani. http://www.islameasy.org/EasyRoad_Paradise.php
“an easy prescription for rectification of the heart. This prescription is very brief but it is very swift in its effect. It consists of four a’mal (good deeds) that are the life of the Islamic Shari’ah and Tariqah, and they are so easy to do that you do not have to spend your life, wealth, or time to do them. If a person makes it a habit of doing them, a special connection with Allah is created whose effect one begins to feel in one’s life. The heart becomes willing to accept rectification and then gradually a state is reached when even if the person wants to commit sin, he is unable to do so..”

Tawba and Istaghfaar – Repentance and seeking forgiveness, by Shaykh Ahmed Abdul Mujeeb Qasmi (translated by Muhammad Owais Jafrey)
http://www.islameasy.org/K202_Tawba.php

http://islameasy.org/K_Repentance.php

Note:
SWT = Subhanahu Wa Ta’Ala
SAW = Sallallaho Alaihe Wasallam
RA = Radhiyallaho anhu
RAnha= Radhiyallaho anha

collected from:http://islameasy.org/Taubah_Benefits.php

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Banana a true friend

Posted on 14 February 2012 by Tea Server

 

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   Banana is a natural remedy for many ills. When compared 
to an apple, it has four times the protein, twice the carbohydrate, three
times the phosphorus, five times the vitamin A and iron, and twice the
other vitamins and minerals. It is also rich in potassium and is one of the
best value foods around. So maybe its time to change that well-known phrase
so that we say, “A banana a day keeps the doctor away!”
 
Bananas contain three natural sugars – sucrose, fructose and glucose
combined with fiber. A banana gives an instant, sustained and substantial
boost of energy.

Research has proven that just two bananas provide enough energy for a
strenuous 90-minute workout. No wonder the banana is the number one fruit with the world’s leading athletes.

But energy isn’t the only way a banana can help us keep fit. It can also
help overcome or prevent a substantial number of illnesses and conditions,
making it a must to add to our daily diet.

DEPRESSION: According to a recent survey people suffering from depression, feel much better after eating a banana.
This is because bananas contain tryptophan, a type of protein that the body
converts into serotonin, known to make you relax, improve your mood and
generally make you feel happier.

Anemia: High in iron, bananas can stimulate the production of hemoglobin in
the blood and so helps in cases of anemia.

Blood Pressure: This unique tropical fruit is extremely high in potassium
yet low in salt, making it the perfect to beat blood pressure.  So much so,
the US Food and Drug Administration has just allowed the banana industry to
make official claims for the fruit’s ability to reduce the risk of blood
pressure and stroke

Brain Power: 200 students at  Middlesex school were helped
through their exams by eating bananas at breakfast, break, and
lunch in a bid to boost their brain power. Research has shown that the
potassium-packed fruit can assist learning by making pupils more alert.

Constipation: High in fiber, including bananas in the diet can help restore
normal bowel action, helping to overcome the problem without resorting to
laxatives.

Hangovers: One of the quickest ways of curing a hangover is to make a
banana milkshake, sweetened with honey. The banana calms the stomach and,
with the help of the honey, builds up depleted blood sugar levels, while
the milk soothes and re-hydrates your system.

Heartburn: Bananas have a natural antacid effect in the body, so if one
suffers from heartburn, try eating a banana for soothing relief.

Morning Sickness: Snacking on bananas between meals helps to keep blood
sugar levels up and avoid morning sickness.

Mosquito bites: Before reaching for the insect bite cream, try rubbing the
affected area with the inside of a banana skin. Many people find it
amazingly successful at reducing swelling and irritation.

Nerves: Bananas are high in B vitamins that help calm the nervous system.

Ulcers: The banana is used as the dietary food against intestinal disorders
because of its soft texture and smoothness. It is the only raw fruit that
can be eaten without distress in over-chronicler cases. It also neutralizes
over-acidity and reduces irritation by coating the lining of the stomach.

Temperature control: Many other cultures see bananas as a “cooling” fruit
that can lower both the physical and emotional temperature of expectant
mothers. In Thailand, for example, pregnant women eat bananas to ensure
their baby is born with a cool temperature.

Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD): Bananas can help SAD sufferers because
they contain the natural mood enhancer tryptophan.

Smoking: Bananas can also help people trying to give up smoking. The B6 / B12
they contain, as well as the potassium and magnesium found in them, help
the body recover from the effects of nicotine withdrawal.

Stress: Potassium is a vital mineral, which helps normalize the heartbeat,
sends oxygen to the brain and regulates your body’s water balance. When we
are stressed, our metabolic rate rises, thereby reducing our potassium
levels. These can be rebalanced with the help of a high-potassium banana
snack.

Strokes: According to research in “The New England Journal of Medicine,”
eating bananas as part of a regular diet can cut the risk of death by
strokes by as much as 40%!

Warts: Those keen on natural alternatives swear that if you want to kill
off a wart, take a piece of banana skin and place it on the wart, with the
yellow side out. Carefully hold the skin in place with a plaster or
surgical tape!

  Forget the pills — eat a banana.  The vitamin B6 it contains regulates
blood glucose levels, which can affect your mood.

 



 

Syndicated from: Just Bliss

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Simple techniques to Get out of Depression?

Posted on 13 February 2012 by Tea Server

Are you Depressed?

One of the biggest causes of failure in achieving high growth in your career is “depression”. This blog post is written for depressed people and there are many. Some will accept it, some will not.

Let’s do a bit of self diagnostic of environment in which we wake-up every morning, drag ourselves until the day is over and ask just one question, how do I classify depression?

  • A state when I feel no energy
  • When I can only think of bad things
  • Do not see light at the end of tunnel
  • Fail to focus on issues (lack of concentration)
  • Unhappy feeling
  • Sleeplessness, fear and craving for food
  • Unwell feeling on getting out of the bed in the morning

If you face any of the above in 24 hours, you might be experiencing depression, and it makes you powerless!

I wonder how many realize that one of the easy ways to shed off depression is by changing your focus to small positive things around you and also use of words that are not too negative.

World renowned transformation speaker Anthony Robbins, in his book “Awaken the Giant Within” writes the following:

“Once you understand the power of words, you become highly sensitized not only to those you use, but to those that people around you use as well. As a result of my new understanding of Transformational Vocabulary, I found myself helping other around me.”

If a little shift can change your mental state from depressed to “Fully awake” and as Tony says “Turbo Charged”, will you not experiment it? After all it is your health and career at stake!

I recently experimented it in my office with simple stuff –

When we all settle down after seeing our emails etc, we start with smiling at each other, at times we laugh without any reason. It is contagious and we all continue this crazy laughing for few minutes.

Honestly speaking, this small effort pushes extreme energy in our bodies for the day. We particularly make it a point to laugh when we are under pressure to meet some time lines.

(did you just observe, I replace the word deadline to a better and more positive word time-line).

It is as simple as that.

Syndicated from: Hammad Siddiqui Blog

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Recession Backed Layoffs Reach Asia, Further Negate Value of Education

Posted on 01 February 2012 by Tea Server

Lets examine the bottom line … why get a degree? why study at all? No jobs on the market, ultra qualified executives backed with experience can’t land a decent interview, so why bother at all? The general suggestion among the entrepreneurial circle for aspiring workers of tomorrow is to either land a blue collar gig, [...]

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Gonzo

Posted on 30 January 2012 by Tea Server

“last man standing after an all night drinking marathon” Bill Cardoso, 1970

Hunter S. Thompson’s disparaging innuendoes have me all hot and bothered. Sometimes, you gotta live it to love it. Last man standing, yes? Here we go again. Coherence be damned.

After a half-night of incoherent, inarticulate boozing and a morning of colorful dreams accompanied with a massive headache, I can’t help thinking of Thompson and his suicide. Considering that my evening began with talk of a friend’s suicide, it makes sense. Was I resentful? Did I feel anger? I think I was broken a little. My friend lived the myth, right to the very end. I wish you love.

Visual artists of Pakistan, where are we headed? One of us gave in and ended his life. One can attribute personal disorders to such behavior and shove it under the carpet. I refuse to let it go. We are all responsible. I claim responsibility. I claim friendship and love. I claim empathy. It has been 2 years. I don’t think I can ever forget.

The myth (the goddamned myth) comes and bites us in the ass, yes? Am I fighting the myth or living it? How can I dissect something without objectivity? How can I be objective when I am so deeply immersed? Oh the burden of pop culture. It weighs me down.

Sometimes, nothing can be done. However, I get this nagging feeling that saying that, or thinking it even, is the easy way out. Perhaps I am too emotionally invested? Maybe I need to quit blaming myself and everyone else. But that again, is only natural. Maybe in a few years, I will come to terms with the entire business and have something more intelligent to say about it. Though, I doubt if one can ever be intelligent about the loss of a friend.

Meanwhile, I keep watching them as they live out their fiction and I live mine. Fiction is often the best fact – just like Thompson said. Just like he said.

Syndicated from: art ka pakistan

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