Oneness: at once it’s important to be at the core of our Self which
is where we don’t exist separately from others and therefore there is no
conflict; here there is just ONE all-encompassing Reality…caste, creed,
nationality, religion, etc are definitions that don’t have meaning; so they naturally cannot separate us from others…

Separateness: (and) at the same time it’s important to evolve and
become cognitively aware of things that we encounter and become so
extremely articulate – that the tiniest thing offers it’s unique
individual identity, its meaning to us!

and so I think Oneness & Separateness have a yin/yang relationship!